The professional must learn to be moved and touched emotionally, yet at the same time stand back objectively: I’ve seen a lot of damage done by tea and sympathy.
It is only when we no longer compulsively need someone that we can have a real relationship with them.
I owed Lewis one thing, at least. Once you had suffered the experience of presenting a case at one of his Monday morning conferences, no other public appearance, whether on radio, TV or the lecture platform, could hold any terrors for you.
If we did not look to marriage as the principal source of happiness, fewer marriages would end in tears.